Saturday, June 30, 2007

snips and snails, and puppy dog tails



This afternoon I dropped Josh and his friend Bryan off at Westover Pool. As I watched them walking in I just sat in my car and realized how grown up he is and that the steps he takes will be more and more going away from home. As it should be, but sometimes it washes over me anew. You'd think with the sixth child, this wouldn't be so hard. No such luck. But, I am savoring moments. Like the other night....about 11:30 p.m. I was sitting out on the porch in the rocking chair, listening to the night when Josh came out. We had spent a fun evening together, went a few places, had some laughs, and even met a super Buckeye fan who graduated from Marysville High School in 1995. (My brother and sister graduated from there!) This guy was with his girlfriend and Josh and I were in a long line at the movies and he nodded at Josh wearing his OSU shirt, and said, "Buckeye Fan???" Josh said he was and that started things. It didn't matter that there were a bunch of people around that we had to talk over. He had found a member of THE club and wasn't going to let that go. We hashed over the Florida curse, OSU basketball, Greg Oden, Tressel, Michigan and what football games he may see this year in Columbus. He looked at his girlfriend and smiled, and let us know that she just didn't "get it" but he was trying to enlighten her. I asked him
where she was from and he said "Lebanon". I said, "Ohio??" He said, "No, Leb-a-non." oh. silly me. The country. But.... there IS a Lebanon, Ohio. I promise. There was a lull as he was paying for something and I yelled out "O-H" and wasn't surprised when he turned with the biggest smile and yelled louder "I-O". It was great.
Anyway, back to the porch. Josh came out and brought Sloopy with him. We talked a bit and he did some moves on his skateboard, and then he started jumping the railing. We had fun trying to get the picture at just the right moment. Well, I guess I had the fun.....poor Josh had to do it about 20 times for me to get it right. Megan and Kelly weren't home, and the world seemed fast asleep. Shammie was curled up on the living room floor, and for a short while, there was only Josh, Sloopy and me in the world. I will hug him hard and force a big smile as he walks toward his own world, wherever that may be.....but for that night.....he was just my little boy.

5 comments:

Dianna said...
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dubby said...

Super picture of him jumping over the rail. Cherish these times, they go by so fast. With me and Dianna leaving, it will all be over so soon.

Queen Karana said...

Oh WOW! You have a blog. Very cool. And it was so sweet of you to stop by and visit MY blog. Well, for better or worse, you will now be getting regular visits from me. :)

I cannot believe how much Josh has changed. He looks so grown up. And Megan, while looking older, still looks basically the same. I guess you see the BIG changes in the LITTLE kids.

Anonymous said...

Karen...
HI!!!! I'm so glad you came by. By all means, hang out with us. I always loved being around you while you were here and wish I wasn't so crazy busy and we would have got to see each other more.

Anonymous said...

"would have got"

nice. I guess I don't really have a grasp on the english language.